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On the threshold of the palace


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Re: On the threshold of the palace [message #11780 is a reply to message #11778 ] Thu, 19 February 2009 18:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Scandal! Author of mature years looks startlingly cute, surrounded by warmth and hellhounds. What is this woman's secret formula for looking so good? Very Happy

Remind me never to visit Dirzhan!


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Poor picture quality!! :)
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Reason number 5 to have dogs: sprawling together.

Hurrah, a story! Thank you and Peter for sharing. :)


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You're looking good McKinley Smile
Like the priorities Smile - two dogs and one leg on, one leg dangling! Is Chaos usually closest to your face? Their relative positions seem to reflect their personalities...


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...and Dirzhan sounds ripe for some serious adventures. Lovely taste. Thank you both!


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Robin wrote on Thu, 19 February 2009 18:47

Poor picture quality!! Smile



LOL! Picture quality was excellent, as Peter didn't cut your head off. Thumbs up to the both of you!


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Wonderful story! [yay yay yay!]
And those ARE good pictures of you! [yaaying again]
To sprawl with dogs... how wonderful. [wistful sigh]
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Cool ... both the photos and the tantalizing bit of story.

How long will we have to wait until it sees the light of day in the form of a book? Or is Peter going to do something radical like e-publishing?


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Shoes on the furniture! Shoes in the house. My Canadian self flinches, but I have heard that that's the way U.S.ians roll. And who can fault them when they do it so urbanely?

Love the blogging approach to the story! Any idea when you or Peter are going to start twittering? Wink
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There were no footnotes!!! I... don't know how to handle this... the entry feels incomplete somehow...


Scosborne, I'm usually barefoot when at home or in the homes of close friends, despite being American.


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scosborne wrote on Thu, 19 February 2009 19:26

Shoes on the furniture! Shoes in the house. My Canadian self flinches, but I have heard that that's the way U.S.ians roll. And who can fault them when they do it so urbanely?


Wearing shoes in the house seems to be a regional thing in the U.S. Minnesota folks shed shoes regularly when they come inside, although when they do so at my house, I tell them that dogs live here and they don't take off their feet. I hate to think of people leaving with their socks covered in dog hair! Smile



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Very nice pictures of Robin providing the hellhounds with a comfortable place to sack out. It is good to be able to work while also being dog furniture! Smile Thanks to Peter for Chapter 1: another book to look forward to, YES.

There was a very handsome whippet boy about a year old in conformation class today. Black and white, lovely front, pretty mover. I thought of you and the boys, of course!



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Diane in MN wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 01:07

scosborne wrote on Thu, 19 February 2009 19:26

Shoes on the furniture! Shoes in the house. My Canadian self flinches, but I have heard that that's the way U.S.ians roll. And who can fault them when they do it so urbanely?


Wearing shoes in the house seems to be a regional thing in the U.S. Minnesota folks shed shoes regularly when they come inside, although when they do so at my house, I tell them that dogs live here and they don't take off their feet. I hate to think of people leaving with their socks covered in dog hair! Smile


Regional but often also country/city. If you're more likely to track mud in, you're more likely to have a no shoes in the house rule. At least, that's what I've observed.
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Interesting, I'd never thought of the shoe thing as regional... but perhaps that's it. I always find it extremely weird when I'm asked to remove my shoes on entering a friend's house; it's like they think I didn't know how to use the doormat.

(Of course, doormat training was firmly ground into me at an early age; we always had one inside the door, one outside the door, and sometimes a scraper as well. I knew that to fail to scrape my shoes at least twice on entering a house was appallingly bad manners.)


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We have two shoe-colonies in the house, one in the front lobby where our own 'going out' shoes are removed/put on (guests do as they please, obviously), and one just inside the kitchen door for the change from indoor footwear to garden footwear. I'm less rigid with regard to the need for garden footwear than Ray is - I tend to think that mud, grass cuttings, etc, won't stick to my indoor flip-flops if I don't allow it. Ray, however, is the one who washes the kitchen floor...

It sounds as though one would be summarily executed in Dirzhan if one tracked mud into the palace! Smile


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This is all very interesting stuff about shoe-removing protocol in the U.S. My main source of information about it is from a New Yorker and her NY state partner who moved to Canada and, in the first years after their move, blogged a bit about the differences they found in the two countries. I was reminded about it again recently watching an episode of This Old House, where the hosts were asked to take off their shoes by the homeowners. It's always such a given up here.
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Count me in the shoe-removing camp! But Robin might have been wearing slippers - I have a pair that look just like Uggs and are incredibly comfortable.

And oh, how I am squeeeeing about the story extract. Nigel sounds like a wonderful character (like my absolute favourite of Peter's people, who is Princess Louise from King and Joker, and does that date me, or what?).


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This is me not buying poor picture quality. Smile

This is also me enjoying very much both pictures and story bit.

I am in the shoe-removal as soon as possible group (though not necessarily front door), because I *like* being barefoot. And dog/cat hair are just a natural part of the environment so if they are present, I tend not to even notice.
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Yes. We had a LONG spell when Darkness would leap up first . . . and go wedge himself down at the foot of the sofa and look at us reproachfully while Chaos would leap up second but grandly and immediately throw himself down between my legs/across my lap. As I've said before though the balance of power between the two of them is nothing like clear--Darkness gets his food first, for example, although that may just be that Chaos is Extra Extremely Weird about food instead of merely Extremely Weird.

But now one or the other of them will usually lie as here, one more or less on/over my lap and the other between me and the back of the sofa . . . which is why I've developed the habit of sitting on the CRACK between the sofa and the camp bed so the DOGS WILL BE COMFORTABLE. Good grief. And then he and Chaos eye each other and you can see them BOTH saying 'nyah nyah' to the other. :)
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I too am barefoot in the SUMMER. But see today's entry. Haven't you people heard of HOUSE SHOES? SLIPPERS?
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Chaos is a PRETTIER mover! I guarantee it! :) (Darkness is adorable, but faultable. Chaos . . . well, on his own lurcher terms I don't think you CAN fault him.)
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WEATHER. TEMPERATURE. SEASONS. Good grief. I am NOT going barefoot when the ankle level draughts are FREEZING.
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In my experience it's also fashion. There was a period in the late 70s? Early 80s? When suddenly people started asking you to take your shoes off.
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That means I have THREE. House, outdoor, and GARDEN footwear.
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Why would it date you? You could have pulled it off a shelf for the first time TODAY. :)
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Robin wrote on Sat, 21 February 2009 00:55

As I've said before though the balance of power between the two of them is nothing like clear <snip> And then he and Chaos eye each other and you can see them BOTH saying 'nyah nyah' to the other. Smile

Haha! Sounds like typical siblings Smile Often the power balance is complex & variable; depends what they each think most worth making an effort for, and I suspect they'd answer differently, being such different characters. Glad to see they've got you well trained in sofa sharing


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The few people I know who demand/suggest shoe removal in non-snowy/muddy weather conditions are generally housecleaning fanatics, furriners*, or both. I usually kick the shoes off soon after getting home, since fluffy slippers are infinitely more comfortable -- but I'd probably not do it if guests were expected! It would feel rude, since they'd be unlikely to come with slippers of their own, and I don't exactly have a supply for visitors. Plus my floors are currently COLD and inhabited by cat hair and dust bunnies.

*"Furriner" doesn't imply from outside the country, just not from my neck of the woods. I haven't worked out any geographical pattern though.
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I always figured that it had something to do with zen or yoga ... or something Japanese

Recently I ready that 80% of the dirt in houses is tracked in from outdoors. It said nothing about how much is created by pets...

Living in a rural area one can see how it would become second nature, but I have a hard time breaking old habits. It's funny, my extra fastidious parents have never shown an inclination to change footgear unless they were wearing snow boots.

Although one is expected to wash ones feet before coming in from the beach.

I wonder about the influence of wall to wall carpet and expensive rugs ...

Its a mystery!


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Mrs Redboots wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 11:22


And oh, how I am squeeeeing about the story extract. Nigel sounds like a wonderful character (like my absolute favourite of Peter's people, who is Princess Louise from King and Joker, and does that date me, or what?).


Oh, I like Louise too! King and Joker was the first book of Peter's I read and put him firmly on my list of writers to watch for.

[Updated on: Fri, 20 February 2009 23:40]



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Robin wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 18:58

Chaos is a PRETTIER mover! I guarantee it! Smile (Darkness is adorable, but faultable. Chaos . . . well, on his own lurcher terms I don't think you CAN fault him.)


So now you will have to post VIDEOS so we can appreciate this! Wink



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skating librarian wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 21:04

Recently I ready that 80% of the dirt in houses is tracked in from outdoors. It said nothing about how much is created by pets...


Pets (at least dogs who go outside) would beat tracking in hands down, at least in my experience. On the few occasions when mine have been with the handler or at the kennel and we have been home, it is amazing how clean everything stays. Even the dust level is down. I think you chose your word well when you said "created by pets".



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Robin wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 20:00

WEATHER. TEMPERATURE. SEASONS. Good grief. I am NOT going barefoot when the ankle level draughts are FREEZING.


My inner sense of what is proper tends to be rather backwards - I like wearing boots in the summer with my shorter skirts, but not so fond of them in the winter unless it's raining*... I really like to wear my trusty flip-flops all year round, though. I've had friends scold me for wearing flip flops in 30 degree(F) weather before...

I don't really live in a place that gets exceedingly cold, though. And, when it is cold, I don't like to leave the house.


*there is nothing worse than wet feet! Boots please!


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Robin wrote on Sat, 21 February 2009 01:04

Why would it date you? You could have pulled it off a shelf for the first time TODAY. Smile

True, but actually I think I read it fairly soon after it first came out. It was one of the first, if not the first, of Peter's that I read, and then I started hunting out other books by him.

Re dogs and tracked dirt - my parents live in a big enough house that the dogs are restricted to the cloakroom (where they have large, comfortable baskets!) until they have dried off a bit. It doesn't help entirely - nothing helps when labradors are shedding - but it helps a bit.


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Robin wrote on Fri, 20 February 2009 20:00

WEATHER. TEMPERATURE. SEASONS. Good grief. I am NOT going barefoot when the ankle level draughts are FREEZING.


Oh, certainly! I have an ancient pair of L.L. Bean leather slippers which I wear all the time indoors. I am wearing them now, in fact.

I tend to take shoes off when I'm in the house but I don't particularly make a point of it.
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The forum ate my initial comment.

I usually kick the shoes off soon after getting home, since fluffy slippers are infinitely more comfortable -- but I'd probably not do it if guests were expected! It would feel rude, since they'd be unlikely to come with slippers of their own, and I don't exactly have a supply for visitors.

My experience is that up here/over here in Canada, we do exactly that - bring our own pair of slippers! If we don't know the people very well, we might double up on socks ahead of time or just deal with the cold feet. If you know you are going to someone's house who is not the best housekeeper, you would probably just put on socks before you visited them as a precaution. But floors generally aren't so bad (unless the person is a real slob) because shoes aren't worn inside to start with.

I've been thinking how odd it might be to someone not used to default shoe removal to go to one of those big university house parties and see everyone in their sock feet. But that's what we do. Imagine a frat party where everyone takes their shoes off at the door.

In the summer, if you go to a barbecue, Canadians will take their shoes off at the front door, walk through the house, and put them on at the back door before going out on the patio. We would only keep them on after asking permission or being invited.

Update #2: I found the blog post about this. It's here. The comments are interesting, at least, I think so. Smile

[Updated on: Sat, 21 February 2009 11:00]

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I'm with Shalea - barefoot as soon as possible - winter or summer. (I don't like slippers or socks, they make my feet hot, and I sneer at ankle drafts. Smile) I never expect guests to take off their shoes but many of them do when they realize that you aren't wearing shoes.

Actually the one exception to barefoot in the house is long periods of on your feet kitchen work - such as Thanksgiving - and then I go for my crocs. They don't look good but they sure help my back.

[Updated on: Sun, 22 February 2009 09:28]


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In Hawaii, everyone removes their shoes before entering or just after entering a house. It's unthinkable to wear shoes or flip flops indoors. I suffered major culture shock when we moved to Indiana and people would wear their shoes inside other people's homes. Same thing in Michigan. Eesh. And guess what - they do the same thing in northwestern Florida! In our house, we ask an individual visitor to take off his/her shoes. But when we have lots of people over for a party, we just give up and let them wear their shoes in our house. My older son got his housemates to take their shoes off once they come inside. I no longer go barefoot in the house (diabetes - doctor's orders to wear slippers indoors) - for summer time I use the lightest zori (flip flops) I can find.

I grew up in a mixed race household, with a Japanese mother. It didn't matter where we lived - we NEVER wore shoes in the house. Absolutely unthinkable.
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This is all highly fascinating! Here it's rather the height of rudeness to ask a visitor to remove their shoes, because the implication is that the host is thus putting the state of their carpets ahead of the comfort of their guests (the assumption being that one would be more comfortable with one's shoes on while in someone else's home--obviously not always true!) Shoes off around here is seen as extremely casual, which isn't appropriate for a visit unless it's someplace where you're quite literally "at home." Smile I always ask permission before removing my shoes even at a close friend's house--just a polite formality, I know the answer will be "sure, of course!" But I still ask. Regionalisms are endlessly interesting! Good to know this about both Hawaii and Canada, I'll keep it in mind for future visits!


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Very well expressed, Black Bear!

I'm finding myself singing 'The Beverly Hillbillies' theme. As in,
"Take y'r shoes off.
Y'all come back now, hear?"

Shoe removal would imply a very informal visit, extreme "Make yourself at home."
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