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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50548 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sat, 30 June 2012 23:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Although we had no ringers to keep happy (the church had no bells) we did get married in a church and it started and finished on time. Because, among other things, military people were involved. Five of us, including me. In four different branches, which meant no one was going to let the others make jokes, and only the groom got to wear his uniform. No false nails, no hair lacquering, no troweling on of makeup (OK, lipstick.)

Knitting today was limited due to the memorial service and reception--on our place--for a friend who committed suicide a few weeks ago. Hosting a big (or even small) group turns on my southern-girlhood-conditioning for hospitality, which means that in two days preceding I had baked 8 dozen chocolate chip cookies, 5 dozen brownies, and purchased (or had purchased by spouse) enough food for more than the expected number of people, since the expected number was "I don't know but at least a dozen or so and probably more than twenty." But don't worry, I was told, some of them will bring something. Nobody could tell me who was bringing what, or how much what they would bring. Therefore I worried. What if "a dozen or so" morphed into 50?

Also it was hot. Also the room in which I set up does greenhousing very well. I was over there at 7 am, redirecting AC from the main house into the back room. It was cool when guests arrived, but when they crowded in after the ceremonies to eat and talk...and kept leaving the outside door ajar...it warmed up fast. Richard thought my purchase of six sacks of crushed ice from the corner store way too much, on the grounds that we often didn't use up a whole sack of ice at Thanksgiving. I pointed out that Thanksgiving rarely approached 100F in the shade when people would be standing out in a hot meadow for the ceremony part. We used 5 1/2 sacks of ice...4 for the cooler with sodas in it, almost 1 to keep the various dips for chips and vegetables cold and also keep the vegetables cold, and almost 1 to keep ice in the punch and in the iced tea. I kept the meats, cheese, potato salad, and mayonnaise in the fridge until people were at the door coming from the ceremonies.

Although I never got a complete head count, it was somewhere over thirty. No one went hungry unless they chose to. People did bring things, from salads to barbecue to desserts, so we had lots of leftovers. Several people brought dozens of cookies. I sent dozens of cookies home with people at the end. ("Here--you like coconut macaroons, don't you? How about some oatmeal cookies?")

When it was over, we collected the things that needed to be packaged for storage, then came home and went THUD. I thought about lying in bed knitting for awhile, but no...definitely sleep, right then. Managed a row when I woke up but that was it. Maybe tomorrow.

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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50549 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 00:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I"m sorry--but if you are being married--be on time!

I know there are situations, but if this is really important--OVERCOME THEM!

*sorry for the rant, but it IS heartfelt*
Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50550 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 00:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Good move to bring the legwarmer rather than the cardi. Your knitting might have got a bit *tight* while waiting for the bride, and it would have screwed up your measurements. Smile

Good pictures of the babies. They are so much more photogenic with feathers!



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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50551 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 00:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The most pleasing, if not very wild, was a donkey, but he would stay in the middle of the field, invisible to his ears in tall June grasses.

My favourite patient as a veterinary student was a Mammoth jack. He was tall enough to put his enormous head over the half door of his hospital stall, and his ears were absolutely uh, mammoth and so fun to play with. He also had a great personality... and possibly the best bit was his name: Donkey Doodle Dandy. I will, however, never forget the first time we tried to weigh him on the horse scale... it took an hour, lots of treats and cajoling, five people, and ultimately a broom to get him on it. Of course, once he'd been on it once, all the subsequent weighings were a piece of cake.

I also remember a mother-daughter pair of smallish donkeys (not sure what breed) who were hospitalized together when one of them had colic requiring surgery. They had never been separated in their lives, so the other of the pair was allowed to stay in the stall along with. It was so funny to walk down the aisle of the intensive care unit and see two pairs of donkey ears sticking up over the stall door...
Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50552 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 00:43 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The most recent wedding I was at started early. Someone had gotten the time off a bit and so attendants started coming in about 10 min before they were supposed to. I inadvertently slowed things down a bit because of sudden rushing around getting the groom's parents situated (I was an usher and had been told to bring them to their seats, but they slipped in while I was off doing something else and quietly sat down in the middle of the church; I'm on her side of the family and had never met his parents, so I didn't even know they were there already until I asked in a slightly panicked voice why the groom's parents weren't there already when the bride was about ready to walk down the aisle, and then rushed them up to the front with a red face), so she was only about 7 min early instead. Fortunately she and her husband were merely amused by this.

Most weddings I've been to have been a bit late, but I agree that much beyond 5-7 min is excessive barring minor emergencies. I appreciate the recent trend of photos before the wedding because it means that all of the main parties involved are already at the location before we get things going.


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50555 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 03:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Ugh. 40+ minutes is beyond the pale, barring emergencies.

I went to ring on a simulator today. Long drive. I wasn't driving. Meant I managed to get some knitting done. Wink


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50556 is a reply to message #50547 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 13:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Okay, generally speaking you don’t get married often enough to learn how long getting into a wedding dress and having your hair redone and your make-up trowelled on and your fake nails reglued and your hem where you’ve trodden on the train stapled back up and so on takes


Still, the point is you're only gonna do this once, so you better get it right... and isn't it generally accepted knowledge that all of the above takes FOREVER?

I was in a lovely wedding last summer. We may have bought bridesmaid bouquets at a craft store an hour before the rehearsal, but we still got to the rehearsal (and to the actual wedding the following day) on time.


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50560 is a reply to message #50556 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 17:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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LadyGrace wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 13:56

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Okay, generally speaking you don’t get married often enough to learn how long getting into a wedding dress and having your hair redone and your make-up trowelled on and your fake nails reglued and your hem where you’ve trodden on the train stapled back up and so on takes


Still, the point is you're only gonna do this once, so you better get it right... and isn't it generally accepted knowledge that all of the above takes FOREVER?


It's acceptable if it seems like forever to the bride. When you've given up the majority of your Saturday afternoon for someone you don't know, paid more in petrol to be there than the payment received and then have to wait forever it is waaaaayyyy less acceptable. Razz


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50561 is a reply to message #50560 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 17:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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b_twin_1 wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 17:25

LadyGrace wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 13:56

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Okay, generally speaking you don’t get married often enough to learn how long getting into a wedding dress and having your hair redone and your make-up trowelled on and your fake nails reglued and your hem where you’ve trodden on the train stapled back up and so on takes


Still, the point is you're only gonna do this once, so you better get it right... and isn't it generally accepted knowledge that all of the above takes FOREVER?


It's acceptable if it seems like forever to the bride. When you've given up the majority of your Saturday afternoon for someone you don't know, paid more in petrol to be there than the payment received and then have to wait forever it is waaaaayyyy less acceptable. Razz



Exactly. What I mean is, the bride should have KNOWN it would take forever, and gotten up at whatever ridiculously early hour of the morning was necessary to spend forever getting ready, and gotten to her wedding on time.


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50562 is a reply to message #50561 ] Sun, 01 July 2012 21:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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LadyGrace wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 17:49

b_twin_1 wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 17:25

LadyGrace wrote on Sun, 01 July 2012 13:56

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Okay, generally speaking you don’t get married often enough to learn how long getting into a wedding dress and having your hair redone and your make-up trowelled on and your fake nails reglued and your hem where you’ve trodden on the train stapled back up and so on takes


Still, the point is you're only gonna do this once, so you better get it right... and isn't it generally accepted knowledge that all of the above takes FOREVER?


It's acceptable if it seems like forever to the bride. When you've given up the majority of your Saturday afternoon for someone you don't know, paid more in petrol to be there than the payment received and then have to wait forever it is waaaaayyyy less acceptable. Razz



Exactly. What I mean is, the bride should have KNOWN it would take forever, and gotten up at whatever ridiculously early hour of the morning was necessary to spend forever getting ready, and gotten to her wedding on time.


Ahhh! Yes!
Sorry, I misunderstood. Smile


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Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50583 is a reply to message #50547 ] Tue, 03 July 2012 01:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Lutheran weddings - at least the ones I've participated in (my own and my son's) and attended - start on time. And with my son's wedding, we the family did all the work; I made the bouquets from flowers my d-i-l purchased, I made all the favors, etc. etc. It wasn't the fanciest by any means, but it went okay. It probably helps to have a pastor in the family. I have no patience with brides who think it's their prerogative to force everyone to wait for them to show up. I'm also quite a curmudgeon about these things now. Middle age. Hmmpphh.
Re: arrrgh plus photos [message #50621 is a reply to message #50547 ] Fri, 06 July 2012 05:34 Go to previous message
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When one of my best friends from college got married she was making her own wedding dress, which took longer than expected, so we all sat up the night before helping to finsih the dress. We were still stitching silk roses on the next morning, up to an hour before the wedding was due to start, but we still GOT TO THE CHURCH ON TIME!
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