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Mon, 27 October 2008 20:55  |
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The Food Ritual
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2594 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Mon, 27 October 2008 23:41   |
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Mesquite is a picky eater too. Sometimes he eats like a normal dog, which is to say he inhales his food, but most of the time something is wrong. I have to move his bowl around too. Once he didn't eat hardly anything for three days and we were out of our minds, the vet couldn't figure it out, and then I noticed a few ants in his bowl.
Now he will not stand for ants. So I have to toss the food, then scrub the hell out of his bowl, then dry it well, then start with new food in another part of the room. Lately the ants have been tracking down the food, so we may have to switch rooms (and get something to round up the ants).
And sometimes he will only eat if we're both in the room. And yes, we have fed him by hand before.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2604 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 00:16   |
b_twin_1 Messages: 2597 Registered: September 2008 Location: Victoria, Australia |
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Dear me. What games!
Chaos and Darkness - you're naughty boys!!
I've got a plan so cunning you could put a tail on it and call it a weasel ~ Blackadder
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2620 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 03:40   |
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Diane in MN Messages: 2733 Registered: October 2008 Location: Twin Cities, MN, USA |
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In between we got tangled up in the roadworks that I swear are all over Hampshire at the moment and have been all summer
They will be re-engineering the highway interchange just north of our house for the NEXT TWO YEARS. AAAARRRRGH!!! "It all makes work for the working man to do . . ."
I also told him about the Food Ritual. And he said he didn’t have a clue.
Obviously he has never been afflicted with a Bad Eater. Ritual is where you end up after Diet Modification and Adding Interesting Stuff to the Dish have failed. I have performed the bowl-moving and hand-feeding rituals, but the really REALLY annoying one was dumping the food into a plastic bag to throw it out, getting a look that said "But that's my BREAKFAST and I'm HUNGRY," dumping the food back into the bowl for one last try, and watching the dog eat it.
I may, meanwhile, have moved Darkness’ bowl once or twice, but Darkness is probably jerking me around for a giggle
I'd guess the probability is about 95%. He's had two years to figure out how to do it successfully and with a minimum amount of effort.
So my total shrieking paranoia about the way dogs eat everything, and the nastier the better, and especially when they’re out on walks, is my default position for the next fifteen years!
Yup. I myself sound like I have a tape loop running when I'm out with the dogs: "Leave it! What's in your mouth? Don't eat that!" until we go in, and unfortunately not directed solely at the puppy.
Remind me again why I wanted dogs?
Well, it's an empty house without a dog in it, right? ::sigh:: It sounds like they're doing better, though--hopefully they will stay well, and who knows, eating regularly might even become a HABIT. ::crosses fingers::
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2622 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 06:00   |
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Lucy Coats Messages: 223 Registered: October 2008 Location: Northamptonshire, UK |
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I think, Robin, that you've been COMPREHENSIVELY HAD by those bad bad dogs. Chaos and Darkness--hellhounds indeed! And yep, they are jerking you around. I know this, because I've been there and done that and am no longer doing it with my adored and lovely black labrador, Teasel (aka the Weasel/rat dog/blasted animal/grrrhhhh!). A labrador that won't eat? say my friends. Pshaw and piffle! Never been known. I spent HOURS watching over the little devil. Fed her separately from the other lab and the dastardly dinmont, because they stole her food and then she looked at me with those big sad eyes. Didn't work. I fed her together, so that she'd defend her food. Didn't work. I changed the food. Didn't work. I did the bowl moving/rolling food on the floor thing. Didn't work. I gave her bovril/homemade chicken stock in case it was too dry. Didn't work. I ignored her. Didn't work. I took the food up and down and did the last chance saloon thing. Didn't work. You know what? All it takes for her is a large spoonful of fresh raw beef mince mixed in to make the nasty food medicine go down. Sorted! I merely pass all this on in the spirit of helpfulness. My vet told me that dogs are excellent psychological manipulators. I have no reason to disbelieve this, given the evidence above.
Lucy xx
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2628 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 07:15   |
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Robin, those doggie games... Golly.
Those boys are smart, and picky. I'm so glad none of my beasts do this. (Though since it's getting colder here and Leanne is still pretty scrawny, I do feed her soup first. She tries to wander off and sleep after a few minutes, so I put her back in front of the bowl. She's good for another few minutes...rinse and repeat until she hides before I can grab her. Then I let the boys out. Soup vanishes shortly after.)
Smooshes!
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2637 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 08:09   |
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Mrs Redboots Messages: 943 Registered: October 2008 Location: London, UK |
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| "Robin wrote:" | In between we got tangled up in the roadworks that I swear are all over Hampshire at the moment and have been all summer I think it has nothing to do with road mending, or gas and power lines. It’s all a huge psychological study of frustration. How much not getting where they want to go will the average driver of the average car put up with before they snap? How is Hampshire doing compared to Norfolk or Yorkshire?
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I don't know about either Norfolk or Yorkshire - or Hampshire either, for that matter, but in London they are driving me insane! I think that ever since I passed my driving test - three years ago, come Christmas - there have been road works of one kind or another on the route between the ice-rink and where I live. Sigh....
As for the dog-feeding thing - we (I mean "my parents" - I wouldn't have a dog in a London flat, so my parents' dogs are always "our" dogs, too) have only had one labradog that was a picky eater. At first she wouldn't eat at all unless you fed her, and all she really liked was green tripe, which my mother was not prepared to give her! She eventually got her act together. The next labradog wasn't picky, but, like many humans, had some kind of food intolerances! She was on a homoeopathic remedy for her nerves, incidentally, but it was also diet-related, and if she had the wrong kind of food it made her worse, so they had to feed her on frightfully expensive additive-free stuff! At least the dear boy we have now has a proper labrador-style appetite!
Mrs Redboots
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2641 is a reply to message #2620 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 08:35   |
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Katherine Messages: 72 Registered: October 2008 Location: Michigan, The States |
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Diane in MN wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 03:40
[color=deeppink | So my total shrieking paranoia about the way dogs eat everything, and the nastier the better, and especially when they’re out on walks, is my default position for the next fifteen years![/color]
Yup. I myself sound like I have a tape loop running when I'm out with the dogs: "Leave it! What's in your mouth? Don't eat that!" until we go in, and unfortunately not directed solely at the puppy.
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I have a cat that gets this shrieked at her at least twice a day. I swear she has...what's that compulsive eating of random things disorder?...oh, yes, pica. And she's an indoor cat so she tends to snarf up clumps of hair the vacuum misses or the twists of carpet the other cat pulls out of the scratching post. "You can't digest that! That's why you keep throwing up!!!" She just jumps and looks at me all wide-eyed when I yell, then when I get up to retrieve whatever she's about to suck down, she'll dive on it again, trying to ingest it before I can get there.
It's not dead bird carcasses and random clumps of nasty mud, but it ends up making just as much of a mess when it comes back out.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2652 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 12:50   |
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Lianne Messages: 144 Registered: October 2008 Location: San Diego, California USA |
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Oy, that's quite a food ritual. I understand how it can come about, though. The picky eater my mom had just died of a fast and rare form of Lyme's disease, so she's suddenly left with just the dog who inhales anything possible and rrrrrruffs! at her for food (and who is bored out of his mind not knowing what to do without his sister, who instigated all their fun). But when Misty was alive, she had some odd habits. She was small and lean and quite the runner (a Brittany spaniel), so there wasn't an ounce of fat on her. And she just wasn't that interested in food. My mom finally got a ritual worked out after all sorts of oddball methods.
One, the food had to be the smallest kibble you could buy. Misty wouldn't eat anything much larger than a pea. Then it had to have a little water poured over it and sloshed around so there was just a nice coating of water on each piece of kibble. Then it had to be taken into the living room (while the other dog had his in the kitchen), put next to the coffee table, the television had to be TURNED ON, and my mom had to sit in the recliner and wait until Misty was finished. Except she never finished, but always left two pieces of kibble for her brother to come and polish off. And if my mom stood up, Misty would stop eating and likely not start again.
It was entertaining when I'd go dogsit, because I had to learn and go through the same ritual. She didn't always require the television be turned on with me, but I had to sit there with her. At least the ritual was figured out before I was dogsitting on a regular basis, because I would have been stressed trying to get her to eat!
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2656 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 13:52   |
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Our dogs aren't generally picky but they prefer that someone be in the same room when they are eating. Since the family mostly spends their time in the den upstairs these days and the dog dishes are in the kitchen this can sometimes be an issue and Toby will bark to get someone to come downstairs so he can eat.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2660 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 14:41   |
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That's how it seems with Mesquite--I think we're his pack. He most likes to eat when we're eating too. With me down this has made it hard--he's been really picky. But last night I had a glass of milk and he was in the room--and so was the food--and he scarfed it down.
And how he asks for his food! Yowling and whining--I'm starving, stupid humans--and then he'll turn his nose up at his food--weasel.
"And by the way you look fantastic in your boots of Chinese plastic."
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2678 is a reply to message #2594 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 16:10   |
NotLonely Messages: 164 Registered: October 2008 Location: SA |
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| ssshunt wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 05:41 |
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I noticed a few ants in his bowl.
Now he will not stand for ants. So I have to toss the food, then scrub the hell out of his bowl, then dry it well, then start with new food in another part of the room. Lately the ants have been tracking down the food, so we may have to switch rooms (and get something to round up the ants).
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My parents have a huge problem with ants. EVERYTHING - flour, honey, marmite, coffee - goes into a waterproof container, and then *that* container goes into a slightly larger one filled with water. If it's in the cupboard, you have to do some really fancy folding so that Nothing Touches Anything Else.
Even the kitchen table's legs each have their dish.
It may work for your dog's bowl. Good luck.
Tessa
Life always, always finds a way.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2694 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 18:42   |
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L.R.K. Messages: 1081 Registered: October 2008 Location: Sweden |
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Sassi(cat) likes to eat "in company", too. It's not that she won't eat at all if nobody else is eating, but she enjoys it more "in company" (my expression for it). I'll get up, say hello to her in our morning ritual, give her food, and she might or might not eat, but when I'll be having my cup of tea she will generally appear to have a bit to eat.
She has invented her own dish, by the way; one day - very early on - I heard a sort of tak-tak noise and then shh-shh - and I found she had got out the hard-what's-it-called food from one bowl and was scraping it together and into the other bowl with her other food (I'm sorry, but I don't know what these things are called in English - hopefully I'm making at least a little sense!). And that's how she likes it: her food sprinkled with the hard what's-it-called.
But that is an idea, though - suppose Robin had something to eat, too, would the hellhounds be more inclined to join in? But perhaps she's tried that already?
Why, I feel all thin, sort of stretched, if you know what I mean, like butter that has been scraped over too much bread.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2699 is a reply to message #2678 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 19:18   |
Sioneva Messages: 1 Registered: October 2008 Location: Seattle, WA |
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| NotLonely wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 16:10 |
| ssshunt wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 05:41 |
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I noticed a few ants in his bowl.
Now he will not stand for ants. So I have to toss the food, then scrub the hell out of his bowl, then dry it well, then start with new food in another part of the room. Lately the ants have been tracking down the food, so we may have to switch rooms (and get something to round up the ants).
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My parents have a huge problem with ants. EVERYTHING - flour, honey, marmite, coffee - goes into a waterproof container, and then *that* container goes into a slightly larger one filled with water.
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I second this. Having spent a large segment of my formative years in West Africa, where ants were rampant, *everything* that we needed to leave out (i.e. pet food) went in a ceramic bowl, which then went into a shallow container filled with water. It was the only way to keep the ants out. Did the same once we moved back to CA and had ants in our backyard that went for the dog's dish.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2708 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 19:52   |
Susan in Melbourne Messages: 184 Registered: October 2008 Location: Melbourne |
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Mankind likes to think that he rules the world - those of us with pets know better.
We had a life or death situation with feeding our cat, Hector, when he was an adolescent. He developed crystals in his urine, and thus a blocked uretha, necessitating endless visits to the vet. There was no real explanation for what causes it, and the only long-term treatment was to put him on a special diet food, only obtainable at great expense from the vet.
Now, Hector was a meat man. Dried food? Pfft! Tinned food? Pfft? Dried or tinned mixed with liver? Pfft!
We found ourselves in the untennable situation of having to say that we just cannot afford to keep paying hundreds of dollars to the vet for emergency treatment, so he was literally going to have to learn to eat this food or it would be all over.
A monumental battle of wills followed.
Hector: (with pitiful look) But I don't LIKE it!
Me: Tough
Hector: I won't eat it.
Me: Starve then!
He got thinner and thinner, and we were in daily fear of being arrested by the RSPCA, but the vet kept saying that no cat will starve itself to death, and he was right. Hector eventually cracked, and started to eat a bit more at each meal, and now five years later is a good trencherman who tucks in with gusto twice a day.
What a relief! He totally ruined one summer and cost hundreds of dollars, but it was worth the trauma in the end.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2720 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 20:15   |
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My dog from ages ago--AJ--would take the kibble out of her bowl and sort it by size. Little yellow triangles go here...
"And by the way you look fantastic in your boots of Chinese plastic."
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2721 is a reply to message #2570 ] |
Tue, 28 October 2008 20:28   |
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My boyfriend's cat Smokey won't eat food that wasn't explicitly given to him. Usually this means putting down food in front of him and petting him a few times while he eats, or he'll just stop eating.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2756 is a reply to message #2708 ] |
Wed, 29 October 2008 08:10   |
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Laura Messages: 196 Registered: October 2008 Location: Midwestern USA |
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| Susan in Melbourne wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 19:52 | Mankind likes to think that he rules the world - those of us with pets know better.
We had a life or death situation with feeding our cat, Hector, when he was an adolescent. He developed crystals in his urine, and thus a blocked uretha, necessitating endless visits to the vet. There was no real explanation for what causes it, and the only long-term treatment was to put him on a special diet food, only obtainable at great expense from the vet.
Now, Hector was a meat man. Dried food? Pfft! Tinned food? Pfft? Dried or tinned mixed with liver? Pfft!
We found ourselves in the untennable situation of having to say that we just cannot afford to keep paying hundreds of dollars to the vet for emergency treatment, so he was literally going to have to learn to eat this food or it would be all over.
A monumental battle of wills followed.
Hector: (with pitiful look) But I don't LIKE it!
Me: Tough
Hector: I won't eat it.
Me: Starve then!
He got thinner and thinner, and we were in daily fear of being arrested by the RSPCA, but the vet kept saying that no cat will starve itself to death, and he was right. Hector eventually cracked, and started to eat a bit more at each meal, and now five years later is a good trencherman who tucks in with gusto twice a day.
What a relief! He totally ruined one summer and cost hundreds of dollars, but it was worth the trauma in the end.
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I don't understand why male domestic cats have this problem so often! My parents lost a cat early in their marriage because the treatments back then were not as effective as they are now, but it left a big mark on them. They compare every cat to Pippin, who only lived to 6 months. 
My cat George started having trouble 2 years ago when he was diagnosed with FLUTD. Amytriptilin (sp?) cleared up his UTI immediately and he started getting canned food, as well as a fancy new water dome to make sure he got enough water. That managed it fairly well until just this year when I was scooping out the litter box and found a substance that looked like sugar! The vet identified it as crystals in his urine and put him on the Urinary S/O diet. Royal Canin is nice enough to offer the formula in dry, canned, and pouch, the latter of which is like little cutlets in gravy, which George LOVES, and it is doing wonders for his urinary health. But then, George has never been a picky eater, probably because he was a stray for so long and beggars can't be choosers.
My parents' cat, now, will cry and cry for kibble when presented with wet food. He's totally addicted to kibble, which makes it difficult to mix any sort of medicine into his food.
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2766 is a reply to message #2658 ] |
Wed, 29 October 2008 09:19   |
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| AJLR wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 18:08 | I wonder if the 'need someone else eating nearby' element is something to do with pack behaviour?
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a lot of it seems to be about competition spurring appetite; and many new puppies are reluctant to eat after leaving the litter where meals were usually a race to get the bottom of their bowl before a faster eating sibling finished and came over to "share" 
some dogs don't like being left and manage to "train" their owners to "stay - good person - stay!" while they eat...
and one of my dogs has her own little food ritual, where she won't eat out of a bowl, but has to have 1/3 or 1/2 of her food tipped onto the floor, and the rest given when she's finished the first portion. Sigh. She's 10 or 11 now, a shaggy rescue so I forgive her, but it is very odd! Then she'll go and scarf up oddments left in other bowls if it was a meal she particularly enjoyed (compliments to the chef) so it's not as if she's scared of bowls.
| AJLR wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 18:08 | I hope her new computer lets her come back and join in soon...
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Yay! New computer up and running - sort of, so allowing for odd hiccoughs, I'll be back to as normal as it gets
[Updated on: Thu, 30 October 2008 05:17] Someone says "pie" and we all go on alert, like meercats. "Pie? Where?" - Blackbear
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| Re: The Food Ritual [message #2767 is a reply to message #2708 ] |
Wed, 29 October 2008 09:22   |
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| Susan in Melbourne wrote on Tue, 28 October 2008 23:52 | Mankind likes to think that he rules the world - those of us with pets know better.
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Snork! This is a great tag line Susan...
Someone says "pie" and we all go on alert, like meercats. "Pie? Where?" - Blackbear
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