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The Tourmaline Ring [message #47356] Thu, 05 January 2012 20:28 Go to next message
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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47357 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 20:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I just wanted to say... I loved this post. Smile

And, belatedly, happy anniversary & many returns of the day! (In October, it will actually be our - my husband's and mine - twentieth wedding anniversary too. My feelings are quite divided on the subject - between: I feel like I've always been married - and - What?! It's been twenty years?! - where did they go?!)


Why, I feel all thin, sort of stretched, if you know what I mean, like butter that has been scraped over too much bread.
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47359 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 21:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Idiot jeweler who didn't listen. Wonderful jeweler who made the tourmalines gorgeous and fit with the twisted-gold-and-diamonds.

And the story of the Tourmaline Ring: priceless.


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47361 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 21:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I love this story sooo much!


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47362 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 22:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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What a beautiful ring! Well, both of them actually - the gold-and-diamond one is quite gorgeous. I am so glad you found a jeweler finally who could do your tourmalines justice. And happy anniversary to you both!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47363 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 22:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Oh wonderful story! The stones and setting are simply gorgeous, and the ring *does* go well with your wedding band. Happy these beautiful stones finally get to be shown off!


Smooshes!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47364 is a reply to message #47356 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 22:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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^ I’ve told you how we met, haven’t I? I was on a Literary Tour of England and he was one of the speakers.

I don't recall *this* element of the story. Presumably it occurs before the fateful pick-up at the Bangor, ME airport? (which you *may* have mentioned once or twice previously...Wink)


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47365 is a reply to message #47364 ] Thu, 05 January 2012 23:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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rainycity1 wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 22:57

^ I’ve told you how we met, haven’t I? I was on a Literary Tour of England and he was one of the speakers.

I don't recall *this* element of the story. Presumably it occurs before the fateful pick-up at the Bangor, ME airport? (which you *may* have mentioned once or twice previously...Wink)

You may not know it because the story is on the old blog. Here it is!


"Purity of heart is to will one thing." Kirkegaard
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47366 is a reply to message #47365 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 00:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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blondviolinist wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 23:28

rainycity1 wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 22:57

^ I’ve told you how we met, haven’t I? I was on a Literary Tour of England and he was one of the speakers.

I don't recall *this* element of the story. Presumably it occurs before the fateful pick-up at the Bangor, ME airport? (which you *may* have mentioned once or twice previously...Wink)

You may not know it because the story is on the old blog. Here it is!


Oooh, thank you for this! I'd heard the "oops" story before, but not the prior meeting. That makes it even better!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47367 is a reply to message #47365 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 00:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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blondviolinist wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 20:28

You may not know it because the story is on the old blog. Here it is!


Oh thank you! I've read some of the old blog, but not all of it, and that was several years ago.


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47368 is a reply to message #47367 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 01:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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rainycity1 wrote on Fri, 06 January 2012 06:13

blondviolinist wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 20:28

You may not know it because the story is on the old blog. Here it is!


Oh thank you! I've read some of the old blog, but not all of it, and that was several years ago.


And thanks from me also! I hadn't read that either, and now I have and... (happy sigh)


Why, I feel all thin, sort of stretched, if you know what I mean, like butter that has been scraped over too much bread.
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47370 is a reply to message #47356 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 01:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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He’s got a much better eye for jewellery than he thinks he does

That's a wonderful trait in a husband. Mine also does very well with jewellery. It helped him a lot at Christmas and with anniversaries and birthdays, and was quite nice for me, too. Smile



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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47371 is a reply to message #47356 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 03:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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What a lovely story! Both rings are just gorgeous. Smile

Picture of silver whippet belt buckle ... ???? Please ...


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47374 is a reply to message #47366 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 09:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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No problem. My pleasure. Smile


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47376 is a reply to message #47356 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 11:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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That first jeweler... how aggravating! Some people have just ONE DESIGN and they try and make it fit all occasions. Sort of like the saying, "If you have a hammer, every problem will look like a nail." They might call it their "style" but I call it lack of tools in the tool box.

The new ring is gorgeous. It goes well with the other ring, which is really very nice too.

I love tourmalines - in fact I love all the colored stones. I find them far more interesting than diamonds. I occasionally set stones in my own work, but sadly they don't sell well, so I end up doing just plain old sterling silver and it is the design that sells the piece. It's odd to me but there you go.


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47377 is a reply to message #47376 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 11:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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As a jeweler, I have to say.... that first idiot should have been drug out into the street and made to do it over again. AND THEN to engrave "I will actually listen to my customers." a hundred million times on a plaque the size of a postage stamp.

The new ring is lovely, luscious, and wonderfully coordinated with the woven gold one. Very nice! And I second the plea for a picture of the whippet buckle. Think what a nice blog post void it would fill at three or four o'clock in the morning.

Just an idea. Smile
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47378 is a reply to message #47365 ] Fri, 06 January 2012 12:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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blondviolinist wrote on Thu, 05 January 2012 20:28


You may not know it because the story is on the old blog. Here it is!

There seem to be several promised stories in that post... *goes to hunt through blogs to see if they ever materialized...*

The ring is beautiful Smile I too would love to see a picture of the silver whippet buckle. And happy anniversary! Smile
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47401 is a reply to message #47356 ] Sat, 07 January 2012 11:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Beautiful rings; beautiful story.

My husband lost his wedding-ring on a business trip to Pakistan - he thinks he took it off to wash his hands and forgot to pick it up again. Or something. Anyway, I no longer wear mine, either (it would need enlarged if I did). We did talk of getting new ones for our Silver wedding, but then didn't.

My sixtieth is next year . . .

Oh don't - so is mine! Too awful to contemplate. It was all right when it was safely two years away. But we are going to go inter-railing in Germany to celebrate, we think.


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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47412 is a reply to message #47356 ] Sat, 07 January 2012 19:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Congratulations on your anniversary!! The ring is truly beautiful, and I love the story (although: what on EARTH was that jeweler thinking? Oh wait. He wasn't).

[Updated on: Sat, 07 January 2012 19:19]

Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47421 is a reply to message #47412 ] Sun, 08 January 2012 13:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Beautiful rings and story. I have much sympathy for the searching for the right ring, etc. because I spent the last year looking off and on for an engagement ring for myself. I threw the poor fiance for a loop when I didn't want a diamond. And like Robin, I get my hands into everything, so need a nice durable, non catchable design. I finally decided I wanted just a wedding band, not an engagement ring per se. I found mokume gane - a layered process based on the techniques used to make samurai swords. It has a beautiful organic, wood grained look to it, but I had a hard time finding anyone nearby in the american midwest who carried it, let alone made it. I finally found a jeweller just this past month and we are finally officially engaged. Which means after knowing each other since High school, and dating for some unknown amount more than 5 years, and living together for at least 5 years, we will finally have an aniversary to miss.

And I have a wedding to plan. ACK!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47422 is a reply to message #47421 ] Sun, 08 January 2012 13:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Jacky wrote on Sun, 08 January 2012 18:16

I found mokume gane - a layered process based on the techniques used to make samurai swords. It has a beautiful organic, wood grained look to it,



Just looked at these on t'interweb, as I'd never heard of mokume gane before - what beautiful rings and designs!

Good luck with the wedding planning!



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Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47425 is a reply to message #47421 ] Sun, 08 January 2012 16:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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(I checked with Blogmom and she said it was okay to post a link to an old post of mine about mokume gane on my commercial site.)

I adore Mokume Gane. It's got to be one of the most stunningly cool materials out there. I wrote an article about how it's made which is really fun to do- if extremely labor intensive.

Usually the best place to find a metalsmith who works in Mokume outside of an art fair, are colleges with Metalsmithing programs. It's too esoteric for most commercial jewelers to consider, so the artistic types who work with it out of love are your best bet. Smile

Jacky said:I finally found a jeweller just this past month and we are finally officially engaged.

I'm so glad! Congratulations!!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47426 is a reply to message #47425 ] Sun, 08 January 2012 19:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Mokume gane is wonderful stuff. I took one workshop on it, and have sitting around somewhere the piece of patterned brass/copper I came out with. We did NOT fuse our blocks of metal, though, they came from Reactive Metals Studio, a little outfit in Arizona that does this part for you.

Similar patterns, much easier though also of course much less durable, can be made with polymer clay. Lots of fun!
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47433 is a reply to message #47426 ] Sun, 08 January 2012 22:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Wow, I'm glad that others have seen it too, because it's beautiful. And yes, labor intensive.

I found a marvelous jeweler in Evanston IL who worked with mokume gane, starting from making her own billets. I asked her if she took apprentices. Only in the mornings, she doesn't work evenings. Wink But does she work! She spent most of her birthday finishing our rings.

If you are interested in more info, I can send you her website.
Re: The Tourmaline Ring [message #47446 is a reply to message #47433 ] Mon, 09 January 2012 14:12 Go to previous message
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Yes please! Although, I'm surprised that you didn't find more smiths near Carbondale. SIUC there has the best metalsmithing program in the US...

Thanks!
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